avi Speaks:-
RELATIONSHIP
A very complex word – “Relationship”. Much as we would love to maintain a perfect relationship, we somehow still cannot evaluate as to what extent the same is being maintained or passed. Because, maybe, we still don’t understand the deep meaning behind this word.
In Harvard University as per the above video, there was a big study conducted and it was seen that in the last 100 years, there were many who became the President of USA out of the same university and many became the Champions and at the same time, there were a few also, who got the Nobel Prize. Surprisingly out of all, in such a lot, there were those also who became mentally wrecked and even destructive or people with negative fame. The question raised was as to what was so important amongst all these high personalities, as the main factor responsible for their achievements. It was observed that the factor was not money, influence, addiction, knowledge, or any such things which come to our mind-but importantly it was the “Strong-relationship-qualities” of these personalities which were responsible for their enormous growth to reach the tip of the pyramid.
The most important thing to this word is the sense of belonging to each other whether it is mother-son, mother-daughter, or father-son or daughter relation or parents or grandparents’ relations or even the boy and girl relation, Husband-wife relation. Relations can be various types like Teacher-student relation, Boss-subordinate relation, and above all-friends together and likewise. This word “belonging” means to what extent we reach each other may be in happiness or sad times, in the joyful atmosphere or struggling times. There have been many expressions to these relationships in the form of the following quotes: –
Now at the same time even the actions of one person towards the other-where he poses to be in relationship talks clearly the strength of their relation-whether it is “TRUE or FAKE”:-
If he has been blank in action towards his person-how can he re-impose trust or faith in his person for him? This is where the relationship takes a nosedive.
We must have the strong presence of venturing into anything together rather than keeping ourselves separate in a relationship. That is why the word-“US” should feature at the center and the word “ME” should come afterward. Then only there is a definite “LIFT” to a certain relationship- as is depicted in the following quotes:-
A true relationship is one, where your partner picks up the signals from your lips rather than being dictated for understanding each other. People call this a telepathic understanding and this is the best one depicting the true Relationship-where they very simply understand each other to the minutest possible details: –
Now let us visualize the negative aspect in a summarised form. People who have a distorted relationship, often are not happy and there are cases of people going into aloofness. Some get into anxiety-driven depression as a result of getting lonely or separated from their relationship. More so, those who are emotionally very weak.
Just recently the sad news of the budding actor Sushant Singh’s demise created a real jolt to all. Some people gave a different reason for his taking the ultimate step saying that it was basically because of the economic crisis. It might not be true and the predisposing cause might land up in reality-whether proved or not-somewhere in the category of “wreck in the relationship”. It is not the first case, there are scientists, Philosophers, even the bigger personalities from different walks of life who have been the victim of such unfortunate happenings and who knows that the basic reason for them, maybe, that they were not that expert in managing and maintaining good relationships which even Harvard University proved in their long-drawn study as mentioned in the above video.
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