What Is The Meaning Of Hanukkah?
The article, “Why I built my own tribe for Hanukkah,” recounts Bliss Goldstein’s journey from areas with strong Jewish communities to Bellingham, Washington, where she felt a lack of connection. Facing loneliness, Goldstein decided to create her own community, embracing individuals who identified with Jewish culture, even if not officially Jewish. The narrative introduces friends like Vicki and Janet, who, despite not being official members, share in the traditions of lighting menorahs and expressing a connection to Judaism.
Goldstein reflects on the diverse backgrounds of her newfound tribe, discovering that many had latent Jewish heritage. This discovery leads her to assemble a group she terms her “minyan of friendship,” paralleling the creation of a protective golem in Jewish legend. The article underscores the importance of these connections, both in moments of literal protection, such as during political marches, and emotional support, as exemplified by a non-Jewish friend’s offer of refuge.
Concluding with a personal reflection on her own identity, Goldstein expresses that one need not be 100% of a particular ethnicity to feel a strong connection to it. The article emphasizes the significance of finding one’s chosen family, especially during the holiday season, and celebrates the sense of belonging within her self-created tribe.
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