Depiction of Memories Lyrics and My Unknown Journey in this tree
Certain happenings related to me that people don’t know
Following are the thoughts jotted down on a first come first serve basis in my mind. The thought related to the memory of certain happenings in my past or even certain steps which are taken as per the stage in my life has been scribbled on the priority of their coming to mind unintentionally. This in a way gives weightage to each incident as per my evaluated placements given to them. I have tried to separate the real shockers like the loss of my dear ones or even the related incidents like that.
1. I underwent major surgery in my tenth year of life.
Back surgery on the lumber vertebrae-where a mole with deep roots entering the cord was removed by Dr. William Ruberio in Jammu-1972. The recovery after the surgery was slow, and it took me three years to get back to normal.
2. Went to see the first movie in a theatre when I was hardly 14 years old along with my sister, who was just 9.
Went with our ‘chappal’ kept outside the theatre and sat on the front wooden benches of Uttam Theatre. The name of the movie was “Har Har Mahadev”. The place was showered with currency coins by the audiences in special scenes where Lord Shiva would appear and do some heroic deed.
3. I and my mother used to go for studies in Master’s at the same time
I was studying for my M.Sc -Chemistry and my mother was preparing for her second master’s and this time it was in English after completing her first one in Hindi. I remember the time when she used to go to university with me since I was following M. Sc in Chemistry and she used to go for her MA In English follow-up at Jammu University.
4. Again, after a big gap of 6.5 years, I did my PG in Marketing Management
I again started studying for my Post Graduate Marketing Management in 1988 after I had already served for almost six and a half years in the Pharma company-which was continued during my doing the Post Graduate course. Incidentally, I topped with 70.5% marks in All India and got the gold medal as well. It was an in-service venture.
5. The names of our children were uniquely kept by merging the names of husband and wife
The names of our children Rasu (My elder son) and Vidhi (My daughter) have purely been kept on the merger of our two names of husband and wife. My name is Ravi and my wife’s Sudha. The first two alphabets of both the parental names were picked up and added to make-RA+SU—RASU and the remaining alphabets-VI+DHA—VIDHA (Which is VIDHI-since VIDHA denoted separation hence changed to VIDHI).
6. Myself and my sister were brought up by our mother alone
I and my sister have been brought up by a single parent- my mother. I would always feel proud of such a rearing under adverse situations which my mother did it bravely and successfully with the limited resources and income
7. I love music and have hardly missed any Musical Competition on TV.
I get an inner solace after hearing the Ghazal King Mehdi Hassan, Ghulam Ali and Jagjeet Singh and even more from these musical competitions held on TV programs. I remember having attended the live concerts of Ghulam Ali and Jagjeet Singh here in Delhi.
8. I often get moved easily by the heart-rending scenes because I have very low control over my emotions
I have very low emotional control and hence get easily moved by the heart-rending- scenes. If someone is in a dire need of help, may it be financial or otherwise-I would love to render my help to him and in the bargain get moved with my moist eyes. In certain emotional scenes on TV or even in real social functions as well, I sometimes get emotional beyond control. Of course, I realize that this is a shortcoming for me.
9. I have come out to be a loser more often than a winner
Since I am sensitive, I get easily carried away, and in the bargain; I come out to be a loser rather than gaining any ground. I know this is my shortcoming or a weakness, but then I sometimes cannot have control over it. Even getting provoked on trifle matters may be the side effect of being sensitive. Also, losing my cool may be the other side effect of my being sensitive. This behavior of mine has put me in tight situations and eventually, I have come out to be a loser more often than a winner.
10. Suddenly shifting to writing daily after retirement is the present happening thing with me.
This often crosses my thoughts. I am aware that bloggers shouldn’t become distracted by statistics or, as they like to refer to it, the number of blog readers who have viewed my article. I am highly aware of often reviewing the precise Google analytics of my viewers since I enjoy seeing these tiny numbers rise. Perhaps it makes me feel really good to see more people joining in and the blog get the credit it deserves because I view it as my primary creative outlet. The fact that you folks read my blogs makes me happy and makes me feel accomplished. I refer to genuine joy. Good luck!
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