RELATIONSHIP
Ravi Speaks:-
Updated on 11.09.2022
Here is a very simple and basic detail scribbled by me for the very vital word-RELATIONSHIP:
A very complex word – “Relationship”. Much as we would love to maintain a perfect relationship, we somehow still cannot evaluate what extent the same is being maintained or passed. Because, maybe, we still don’t understand the deep meaning behind this word.
In Harvard University as per the above video, there was a big study conducted, and it was seen that in the last 100 years, there were many who became the President of USA out of the same university and many became the Champions and, there were a few also, who got the Nobel Prize. Out of all, in such a lot, there were those also who became mentally wrecked and even destructive, or people with negative fame. The question raised was what was so important amongst all these high personalities, as the main factor responsible for their achievements. It was observed that the factor was not money, influence, addiction, knowledge, or any such things which come to our mind-but importantly it was the “Strong-relationship-qualities” of these personalities which handled their enormous growth to reach the tip of the pyramid.
DIFFERENT STAGES DEPICTED IN A PYRAMID EVOLVE LOVE/INTIMACY AT THE TIP
The most important thing to this word is the sense of belonging to each other whether it is mother-son, mother-daughter, or father-son or daughter relation or parents or grandparents’ relations or even the boy and girl relation, Husband-wife relation. Relations can be various types, like Teacher-student relation, Boss-subordinate relation, and above all-friends together and likewise. This word “belonging” means to what extent we reach each other may be in happiness or sad times, in the joyful atmosphere or struggling times. There have been many expressions to these relationships as the following quotes: –
Now at the same time even the actions of one person towards the other-where he poses to be in a relationship talks clearly about the strength of their relation-whether it is “TRUE or FAKE”:-
If he has been blank in action towards his person-how can he re-impose trust or faith in his person for him? This is where the relationship takes a nosedive.
We must have the strong presence of venturing into anything together rather than keeping ourselves separate in a relationship. That is why the word-“US” should feature at the center and the word “ME” should come afterward. Then only there is a definite “LIFT” to a certain relationship- as is depicted in the following quotes:-
A true relationship is one where your partner picks up the signals from your lips rather than being dictated to understand each other. People call this a telepathic understanding and this is the best one depicting the true Relationship-where they simply understand each other to the minutest possible details: –
Now let us visualize the negative aspect in a summarised form. People who have a distorted relationship often are not happy, and there are cases of people going into aloofness. Some get into anxiety-driven depression because of getting lonely or separated from their relationship. More so, those who are emotionally very weak.
Once we listen to even the bigger celebrities’ personal stories, we often find that they too result from this distorted relationship. I am not a Psychiatrist or a Neurologist but a simple layperson in such a vast subject but the little, which I could gather from the untimely and unfortunate steps these celebrities take, are basically deprived of the basic strong ingredient—“LOVE”– and that too the offshoot of what we call as the relationship.
Just recently, the sad news of the budding actor Sushant Singh’s demise created a real jolt to all. Some people gave a different reason for his taking the ultimate step, saying that it was basically because of the economic crisis. It might not be true and the predisposing cause might land up in reality-whether proved-somewhere in the category of “wreck in the relationship”. It is not the first case, there are scientists, Philosophers, even the bigger personalities from different walks of life who have been the victim of such unfortunate happenings and who knows that the basic reason for them, maybe, that they were not that expert in managing and maintaining good relationships which even Harvard University proved in their long-drawn study as mentioned in the above video.
DIFFERENT STAGES DEPICTED IN A PYRAMID EVOLVING LOVE AT THE TIP“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” The relationship is a constant work and knowing how to improve together is vital for the relationship to work.
Finally, for everyone:
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